I have been married to my husband for a good 12 years and there was never a time that we felt things were falling out of place. There is no real secret behind what have had going except for the fact that it only takes patience, understanding and a lot of effort from both sides. I have to admit that there were instances when we would end up having arguments, but these are all healthy discussions so to speak. Life is not really something that we should learn to adapt to, but it should be the exact opposite in my opinion. We have to dictate what we would actually want out of our personal lives and this has always been done by sharing opinions as far as both I and my husband are concerned.
It was not long ago that I have voiced out my objection about him purchasing a motorcycle that he would use as a secondary vehicle whenever he would need to go to work on weekends as a local building contractor. It is not out of anything else, but I have seen a lot of disadvantages in riding bikes when it comes to safety. He eventually was able to convince me after providing me with several practical reasons and I have conceded to what he had wanted. However, in so doing, I have realized that it is also my obligation to look out for his welfare and I have immediately did some research and have ended up buying a Nolan N104 helmet. It seems that he had appreciated my involvement more when he received it as an advanced present for his upcoming birthday.